THE HEALING GIFT OF SAYING “I DON’T KNOW”
Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally There was a time in my life when I felt I had to have all the answers.As a leader. As a parent. As a believer.I thought people expected me to know — what to do, where to go, how to respond, what God was saying. So I studied […]
Building Altars, Not Just Routines: Spiritual Habits That Transform
Your spiritual habits become altars when they rise beyond routine and draw you into God’s transforming presence. There’s a difference between simply going through the motions of spiritual practices and creating a sacred meeting place with God. One is a routine — a checkbox, a daily ritual that often feels dry. The other is an […]
CONTROL IS EXHAUSTING — HERE’S WHAT RELEASING IT FEELS LIKE
Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally Let’s be honest — controlling everything is exhausting. Trying to manage people’s perceptions.Trying to anticipate every possible outcome.Trying to steer every conversation, every decision, every moment — so that nothing feels uncertain. For years, I lived like that.Not because I wanted power, but because I wanted safety.If I […]
How to Create Breakthrough Habits That Stick
Real change happens when small, Spirit-led habits take root and grow over time. Have you ever decided to change something in your life — like starting a new fitness routine, reading the Bible every morning, or committing to healthier boundaries — only to fizzle out after a few days or weeks? You’re not alone. Many […]
WHY SOME PRAYERS ARE ANSWERED ONLY AFTER YOU SURRENDER
Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally Have you ever prayed — earnestly, faithfully — and still felt like heaven was silent? You fasted.You believed.You cried.You even did everything “right.” And yet… no breakthrough.No clarity.No open door. At some point, most of us ask: “God, what else do You want from me?” And the answer […]
Guarding Your Spirit: Why Discernment Is Protection
Your spirit is priceless — so protect it with discernment as fiercely as you would a treasure. In a noisy, fast-paced world full of distractions and mixed messages, one skill stands out as a spiritual safeguard: discernment. To discern is to look beneath the surface of what is seen and heard, to recognize the true […]
THE POWER OF SPIRITUAL YIELDING IN CONFLICT
Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally Conflict is inevitable — but how we respond to it is what defines our spiritual maturity. Some people lash out.Some shut down.Some overexplain.Some silently withdraw and simmer. But very few pause in the middle of tension and ask, “Holy Spirit, how should I respond right now?” That’s the […]
Building Self-Respect Through Boundaries
True self-respect is born when you honor the sacred limits that protect your soul. We live in a world that celebrates accessibility — the ability to connect instantly, say yes easily, and stretch ourselves thin for everyone who asks. But what happens when we give so much of ourselves away that there’s nothing left for […]
A TRUE STORY OF HOW SURRENDER SAVED MIKE’S RELATIONSHIP
Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally Mike was a fixer.Not just by personality — but by conviction.He believed that if he could solve a problem, he should. And when it came to his closest relationships, that belief became a burden. Mike loved deeply. But he also controlled quietly. He wanted things to go well […]
The Power of Prophetic Intercession Over Your Goals
When you dare to pray prophetically over your goals, you align your ambitions with Heaven’s agenda—and that changes everything. Have you ever set a goal and felt it slowly fizzle? Maybe you wrote it in a beautiful journal, envisioned yourself succeeding, and even took a few bold steps. Yet somehow, resistance, distractions, and self-doubt chipped […]