The Courage to Surrender: Why It’s Hard to Let Go

White Flagging Launches August 5 — Just $0.99 for One Day Only!Letting go sounds beautiful—until it becomes personal. We say things like, “God is in control,” or “Let go and let God,” but when the pressure hits, we grab tighter.We don’t release the relationship.We don’t drop the failed plan.We don’t unclench our grip on how […]

MY #1 RULE FOR EMOTIONAL SURVIVAL: THE WHITE FLAG RULE

Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally If there’s one principle that has saved my mind, heart, and relationships over and over again, it’s what I call:The White Flag Rule. It didn’t come from a psychology textbook.It wasn’t something I found in a sermon.It came in a moment of emotional overload — a moment when […]

THE POWER OF SPIRITUAL YIELDING IN CONFLICT

Walking through surrender — emotionally, spiritually, relationally Conflict is inevitable — but how we respond to it is what defines our spiritual maturity. Some people lash out.Some shut down.Some overexplain.Some silently withdraw and simmer. But very few pause in the middle of tension and ask, “Holy Spirit, how should I respond right now?” That’s the […]