What Culture Got Wrong About “Winning”
Winning. It’s a word we’re taught to crave from an early age. Win the race. Win the argument. Win the job. Win the battle. It’s plastered across sports ads, motivational posters, and self-help books. And yet, the more I chased what culture called “winning,” the more I felt like I was losing myself. I had […]
Surrender is Not Weakness — It’s the Ultimate Strength
There was a time I believed that surrender meant quitting. That to wave the white flag was to admit failure. That letting go meant weakness — spiritual, emotional, even personal weakness. I thought strength meant pushing through, holding it together, showing no cracks. But I was wrong. My journey has taught me a radical truth: […]
The Illusion of Control: Why Letting Go is Freedom
I’m so excited to share some special daily blog posts leading up to the launch of my new book, White Flagging: The Surprising Power of Winning by Surrender. Each post comes straight from my heart — drawn from the very lessons that shaped this book. My goal is to stir something deep in you, to […]